Bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for bad statements (or bad men for bad women). Good statements are for good people (or good women for good men) and good people for good statements (or good men for good women), such (good people) are innocent of (each and every) bad statement which they say, for them is Forgiveness, and Rizqun Karîm (generous provision i.e.Paradise). (24:26)

O mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam), and from him (Adam) He created his wife [Hawwa (Eve)], and from them both He created many men and women and fear Allâh through Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship)^[]. Surely, Allâh is Ever an All­Watcher over you. (4:1)

O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will, and you should not treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the Mahr^[] you have given them, unless they commit open illegal sexual intercourse. And live with them honourably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allâh brings through it a great deal of good. (4:19)

"O People, it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women, but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah's trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with any one of whom you do not approve, as well as never to be unchaste." The last sermon of our beloved Prophet Muhammed (SAW)

According to Islamic law, the husband should be aware that he is not a "master". His wife is his committed partner and helper. In today's world, and from different cultures our influences and what we learn is that our wife should be a genie (jinn), who can raise the children accurately and take care of the husband and children from washing the clothes, ironing, making food, and cleaning ect. In some countries, she should be doing a job, and earning money also. And whenever the husband is upset, who can say one word, for example "I will give you divorce" and that will lose her confidence forever. 

The husband forgets that the wife is his management, and after a couple of hours he becomes normal, but leaves a single poison cell in his wives' ear, and according to the Qur'an the husband and wife is not two but they are one, or one of his family members, for example his mother, sister, brother, or father, who are not satisfied with the husband and wives' personal life which has nothing to do with them, but the husband who wants to show his family that he is very obedient towards them but he really does not care, and he would destroy his life, like his children and wife, how much of a fool has Satan made him to destroy his life. These matters should be balanced as Allah (SWT) has taught us in Surah Rahman, whatever responsibilities Allah has given towards the mother or towards the father or brother and sister should be balanced without destroying the husband's personal family life.

And the wife like the controller of the house and trustee and management, who really gives backup towards the husband and children, of his kids and wealth and his worldly matters. And if she loses her confidence, how will she perform her job properly after she heard this word out of the husband's anger, and she starts to think that she will be out anytime from the house if she is unable perform anything and she will feel helpless. 

Today most of the husbands keep there bank accounts and money separate from there wife, and they hide it. And some of the husbands shows off and lies a lot in front of his wife, and never shows there original condition and the family life as a result collapses because of lies, and to show the wrong status. And then, everyone starts to blame the wife, for example, she is a wrong person, or a over spender. Instead if the husband is honest and shows everything openly such as his income, Allah (SWT) has created the wife like a blank recording tape, the way the husband wants to show her she adopts that way. If one is not a practicing Muslim, and the wife was a practicing Muslim, then most of the time the husband tries to make her lose her hijaab and modesty, and teaches her to become "modern" and to move with society and friends. The wife is not a decoration piece, to show off to non-muhrims who have evil eyes and jealousy. From the day one if one asks his wife to wear a hijaab and fear Allah, guaranteed that husband will live the most successfully, and she will be able to raise the best children for you, regardless of income, status or who you are. But if the husbands tries to move her towards the "modern" society, the opposite of Allah is only Satan (Shaytan), and the husband is making his life partner Satan (Shaytan), and naturally if Satan (Shaytan) is raising the children, then automatically the children will become Satan (Shaytan) also. Do not forget, a single child is one generation, and if destroyed by the wife or the husband then they will be responsible to destroy the entire generation.

Satan (Shaytan) loves the most important job, to create conflicts between the husband and wife. Beware of Allah who is the controller of all the things, in your life, body and this universe.

Also (forbidden are) women already married, except those (captives and slaves) whom your right hands possess. Thus has Allâh ordained for you. All others are lawful, provided you seek (them in marriage) with Mahr (bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage) from your property, desiring chastity, not committing illegal sexual intercourse, so with those of whom you have enjoyed sexual relations, give them their Mahr as prescribed; but if after a Mahr is prescribed, you agree mutually (to give more), there is no sin on you. Surely, Allâh is Ever All­Knowing, All­Wise. (4:24)

Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allâh has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allâh and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allâh orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill­conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allâh is Ever Most High, Most Great. (4:34)