Islamic laws treat a lady as the queen of the house, regardless of status. After marriage a lady should manage her home, just like a controller or management of the family. The husband leaves out for work most of the day, and his wife is the one who takes care of the children who are the future generations. If one child is destroyed, that means an entire generation is destroyed. The job of a wife is to focus on her husband, her home, and children, and she should not be attractive to any other man except her husband, Why? If the lady starts to show off to others, then they will start to take interest on her, and if she feels that people are appreciating her outfit, or body figure, or hair style, that is the weakness of any lady. And she would start to be more involved with people, in order to appreciate her outfit, hair style, and body figure. Islam does not allow anything to be unbalanced. Because Allah has created the lady to take care of her family, because she is the one who raised her children, and those children are future generations, so she should be only focusing on her husband and children. And if she involves in other matters, other than family affairs, then the children and her husband will be disturbed. The hijaab is not an Islamic fashion, however it has a very deep wisdom behind it, and which has lots of benefits which one will never understand unless she uses it for herself. According to Islamic Law, after maturity it is obligatory for a lady to cover herself using a hijaab. Otherwise how can one call herself a Muslim, when she is breaking laws of Allah (SWT), which has a very big punishment. To not use the hijaab is not a minor sin, however it is a major sin. We are always hearing from people that there is evil eyes, and as a result people get sick, lose there business, or job as a result towards financial difficulties. When a lady gets ready, with her hair style set, and as she walks without a hijaab, and goes to parties, school, and universities, how many evil eyes are eating her beauty, which she is not realizing. Every man's eye is on her, and that is the opposite sex, and her beauty should be not be exposed to the opposite sex. That beauty should be saved for her husband, Allah is our creator and he knows our chemistry in the best manner, and if we do not follow him, the owner of our own bodies and soul, then we are losing, and this life is just a test, and every soul is going towards death. Now we can see in today's world, that wearing a hijaab looks like it is out of fashion. However these fashion's we adopt because of people in order to not look outdated, then one should ask one of those people if they are willing to come to help you in your grave after death. You will be all alone, for eternity. If we do not obey the laws of Allah, that means we are automatically obeying Satan (Shaytan), and if we follow him, then his followers are going to the hell fire along with him. Allah (SWT) wants us to have the highest standard of life, in order to maintain our health, purity, status in society. We cannot follow the non-believers who's life is just like the life of an animal, and how? Non-Muslims have a unbalanced lifestyle, which we are trying to follow. And how? Before or after the marriage, no one knows how many boy or girlfriends the bride or groom have. The husband or the wife have no idea that when they are not together, who are they moving with. And after children, there lifestyles are fully destroyed, and the children follow along, and that is the reason why people avoid marriages, which Islam strictly prohibits. So whoever does not wear a hijaab, they are following the non-believers, and the results will turn out to be the same, and in the end there will be separations and divorce take place. So why do Muslims have so many divorces and disasters in family life because of following the ways of kaafirs through TV, movies, and society. Scientifically, if one goes to a five star hotel, the cook cannot cook food without covering the hair, and the chef should not serve without covering the hair, and why because hair carries germs which can cause any kinds of sickness. Or before any surgery takes place, they shave the hair of that part in order for the hair not to stay at the open cut because hair cannot dissolve which can cause death. When a lady wears a hijaab, she goes outside where there is lots of air pollution which absorbs in long hair and when she comes home, and the same hair drops in the food, or her hair rub on the pillow while sleeping her baby and husband inhale all the germs within her hair for six to eight hours during sleep. If someone wears a hijaab she then saved from all of this. Most of the time, many who claim to be good practicing ladies but still want to be engaged with Satan (shaytan), and they give excuse that they are not ready. If one is ready or not, all the efforts are useless if one is involving herself in a major sin, and that is to not wear a hijaab. Today the hijaab has become a very big deal for Muslims, who claim to love Allah and his prophet. In reality the hijaab is not enough, because of the weakness of the lady, to get ready with all makeup, still Satan (shaytan) gives many ideas to attract others, and if she is a true believer who claims to be a mu'minah should wear a niqaab (a veil over the face). |