O mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam), and from him (Adam) He created his wife [Hawwa (Eve)], and from them both He created many men and women and fear Allâh through Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship)^[]. Surely, Allâh is Ever an All­Watcher over you. (4:1)

Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allâh has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allâh and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allâh orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill­conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allâh is Ever Most High, Most Great. (4:34)

WIFE TO HUSBAND

In today's world, Satan (Shaytan) has made the lady so occupied and busy, the lady wants to be a professional and house wife at the same time, and Satan (Shaytan) has the strongest influence on the mother or the wife. Why?

The reason is because if the mother is destroyed by Satan (Shaytan), then the children would also be destroyed, and so will the husband. For example, if a mother has four children and her husband, so Satan (Shaytan) would not go individually to each and every person, but instead would influence the mother, because all the five are linked to the mother. And one child is one generation, and if they are destroyed then an entire one generation is destroyed. That is why the mother's responsibilities is very big.

And the wife, if she is not giving the proper back-up towards the husband, then the husband is unable to become successful. 

And wish not for the things in which Allâh has made some of you to excel others. For men there is reward for what they have earned, (and likewise) for women there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allâh of His Bounty. Surely, Allâh is Ever All­Knower of everything. (4:32)

Nowadays frequently all women talk to each other over the phone, and backbite about the husband, and his family members It is just like that wife is betraying her husband, because when one backbite, Satan (Shaytan) is amongst them, and the other lady is enjoying, and is giving that wife the wrong ideas to destroy the family members.

Whomever we know we use the best of manners when we talk to them, and we would like to make sure our neighbor or friend, or whomever would tell that this lady has the best manners and etiquettes. But when one talks to her real partner, her husband, her attitude changes with complaining regarding financial, or personal life, and to be ungrateful to Allah and her husband. 

Now the way one thinks, it happens accordingly. If one thanks Allah and has a small amount of money, that "small" money multiplies to beat any large amount of money, if there is happiness.

And if there is not happiness, then any amount of money cannot give the soul satisfaction for life time.

Beware of Allah, because you have been chosen in order to serve and to manage your family members. You have a very big responsibility, and as a result a very big reward. Always listen to your husband, and if he is angry that is only temporary, and never talk back, because if you talk back then there will be a never ending fight, and the house becomes like hell without any peace. Because whenever one would see her husband's face, then the Satan (Shaytan) would always push her to fight with her husband. Did the wife ever realize the house, where she lives, and all the furniture and everything the husband is making all of this for who, other than his wife, or children.

Our beloved Prophet (SAW) said in his last sermon: "Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah's trust and with His permission."

Very few husbands who are fools, and not practicing Muslims, and have no fear of Allah they will always give the wife hard times, but the wife will always have a great reward because whatever the husband is giving a hard time for no reason, and to tease the wife, because the wife is a gift to the husband, and if misused or abused, he is earning a grave punishment.

It is very important to avoid movies, and soap operas, and novels, because this is a very great source to destroy the family and the family life. Because Satan (Shaytan) sits in the heart and every story it feels like reality.

Ignore the husband's anger, and do not hold his words like an enemy, remember he is not your enemy but is your husband.